Sunday, August 26, 2007

Sao's wedding party

The wedding party was in the early afternoon near the Donsak pier in a local school.

The location was inside a gym hall, which was turned into a giant room with dozens of tables where all the guests could eat and drink.

This must've been one of the prime weekends for weddings this year so far, all over the place wedding parties were held and we met and saw various wedding convoys, on their way to their respective parties.

Here's a view from the back, in front you can clearly view the typical table set up, with 8 covers, a bottle of Thai Whiskey, a big bottle of Coke, a couple of smaller bottles of Soda water and a bucket of ice.


Once a party of 8 (or less) is seated, the food starts arriving. In this case we were served Moo Waan (sweet pork, delicious!), Plaa Nung Manau (Steamed white snapper with chili sauce), Yam Saam Klob (spicy mixed salad), Pat Pak Ruam (mixed fried vegetables), Tom Yam Talee ( sour sea food soup) and Kao Pat (fried rice).


The couple had to endure loads of speeches and here they are with the MC.


Outside the people that left were donating their envelopes, which contain money. The amount of money in the envelope depends on how well you know the person in question, and ranges from a couple of hundred baht to a couple of thousand Baht or sometimes even more. All envelopes are named, so the receiver now knows how much he has to give next time you throw a party.


A view of the entrance of the hall, on the left the table with the white boxes for the envelopes, in front the entrance to the hall and on the right a picture of the wedded couple with flowers.

All in all a great day which went by rather quickly. The kids had a blast, met some old friends and played till there was no tomorrow. They're both dreaming right behind me in the room.

My wife had a great time since it was her best friend being married and she met various other old friends, amongst other Kob, who she doesn't get to see that much, since they live about 1500 KM away.

Tomorrow morning it'll be a relaxed breakfast in the hotel and than off to Phuket, unless we have lunch with Kob first!

Hope you enjoyed today's pix and I'm looking forward to hear your comments.

Camille

Hotel Recommendations: Merlin Beach Resort

The Phuket Merlin Beach Resort is almost in Patong Beach, but not quite. The location is off a side road to the South end of Patong, past the Baan Yin Dee Boutique Resort and heading towards Paradise Beach. It's easy enough to find, but not too many people head this way. This is an area we like and I have already recommended the Tri Trang Beach Resort on this blog.

I just decided today to blog the Merlin Beach Resort, as a customer came in to book diving and was raving about the place. It IS a big resort, with more than 400 rooms and does get large travel agent bookings, yet due to it's secluded location does not feel like part of the main tourist scene. The resort has several restaurants, tennis courts, 3 pools, a spa, a gym, a beauty salon - all that you'd expect from a quality resort.

But the attraction for me (as usual) is the location - Merlin Beach Resort is on it's own beach - which they say is called Tri Trang Beach, although that is also the name of the beach where you find nearby Tri Trang beach resort. The Merlin Beach faces south, the Tri Trang Beach resort faces North. The 2 hotels are not on the same beach... But hey, it's a private beach, located near Patong (near enough to get there in 10 minutes, but far enough to be very quiet) - great location.

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Saturday, August 25, 2007

Sao's wedding

Sao is my wifes best friend.

Since a couple of months it was decided that today was a good day to get married, according to the monks. So, we're off to the mainland, to Donsak, where she originates from. Donsak is also where the ferry arrives from Samui and this weekend proofs to be a very popular weekend for marriages, all the monks must've looked in the same crystal ball, since it's marriage galore, everywhere are marriage parties, both Samui and the mainland.
The hotel we're staying at in Surat Thani has a party every night as well.


Sao in her wedding dress. She's in her room in her house, where she had to stay all morning, waiting for the groom to show up.


The groom and his family are arriving. The women of his family have been sent in first!


The groom has to pay a fee for every door that he enters in Sao's house. He will give the holders of the gold chains a small amount of money in an envelope. The chains are normally held by the bride's friends.

The groom arrives with his posse. His Dad in front and he's on the left next to him.


Before he can enter the actual house, he must take off his shoes, which in this case is done for him.


One of the envelopes that is used to 'bribe' his way into the house.


Entering the living room, where the actual wedding ceremony takes place.

Earlier this morning, around 6 am, the monks came to the house and had a blessing party.


The actual wedding is about to start and prayers are held.

The ceremony is not supervised by monks, but by elder people, in this case the Grand Mother of the bride. The elderly are very well respected in Thai culture.


The dowry, or Sin Sot in Thai, is paid to the father of the bride (the Mother has already passed away a few years earlier).


Here's the complete dowry, about 50.000,-Baht for this wedding, a golden wedding ring, a gold wrist chain and a golden necklace. The gold is worth a few bath as well, in this case, the word Bath is used as a weight rather than the monetary variation. One bath equals about 10 gram (if memory serves me correctly) and is currently valued at about 12.000,-Baht per Bath.

Putting on the wedding ring.


The bride thanks the groom for everything.


The groom receives his ring, so he can proof he's married.


Final blessings by the elderly.


A few over the crowd that gathered in the room, watching the ceremony.

Than we were off to the groom's village, about 70 km away from Sao's village, since she had to meet the groom's family elders, who all gave their blessing.


Around the corner of the groom, one of my wife's other very good friends lives. Sao, Kob (the other friend) and my wife all went to the same school and university.

This is Kob's beautiful wooden house, in the middle of nowhere, very relaxed.

Sofar it's been an eventful and busy day. We have a short break now but are almost on our way again for this afternoon's wedding party in Donsak at Sao's, to be held in the school grounds next to her house. About 400 to 500 people are expected during the evening.

It was interesting to experience the wedding for me, since it's the first time I actually witness the actual wedding. Parties for which we are about to leave soon, I've visited plenty of times in Samui already.

Hope you enjoy the pictures, more pix later from the party.

Please feel free to leave comments.

Camille

26th August, 2007

Today's weather from Surat Thani;

This morning there was light overcast in Surat Thani city, where we stayed for the night. This morning we left real early to be on time for the wedding which was in Donsak, where there was a light drizzle. Temp right now is 30C with light overcast.

In Surat Thani we stay at the Diamond Plaza Hotel, which is a good deal for just under 1.000,-Baht per night, incl. breakfast, with a swimming pool, massage parlour and gym on the 3rd floor and Wifi for 100,-Baht per 24 hours in the room. If you ever get stuck in Surat Thani city, this is a good recommendation. It's also next to a big Tesco Lotus shopping mall.

Yesterday it was a nice day which saw some sunshine and both on Samui and Surath Thani there was a max temp of 33C

Camille

Friday, August 24, 2007

25th August, 2007

Today's weather;

It's raining this morning, a drizzle. Current temp is 26C

Yesterday it was warm, hot rather and very sunny!

In a couple of hours we're off to the mainland, Donsak to be precise, for the wedding of my wife's best friend and on Monday on to Phuket for a couple of nights.

Stay tuned however and please send in your comments.

Camille

Mook's old kitchen or Samui tradition, part 1

Mook is my wife's niece.

Mook's Mum is a sister of my wife's Grand Mother.

Now what's so interesting about this? Well, Mook's been living not too far away from our house, maybe 500 or 600 meters and our respective children play a lot together.
The house that Mook's living in, with her Mum, husband and her two children is about to be torn down. According to her Mum, it's about 100 years old and my wife kept telling me that I have to go and get some pictures from their kitchen, since it's an old one, she kept saying.

Today was the day and pictures where taken! Actually, so many pix were taken that I'll have to split this story up in two or three parts. But the pictures are sooooo good. Have a look below, there's some old style Samui tradition to be found in here!


This is an overview of said kitchen. As you can notice, all utensils are on the floor. Everything is prepared and cooked whilst sitting on the floor, a slightly different concept to our modern Western kitchen!

In this picture, on the left, behind the bright white cloth, there's a Durian fruit (one of my favorite fruits). At the top left of the picture, one can see a gas run cooker, next to it, two coal cookers and on the right, an very rare sample of an old style cooker, of which I took a few pix and will show you later.

A lot of things are also hanging from the ceiling and fruits, veggies and other kitchen utensils are kept there.


Same kitchen, different view. On the wall slightly left from the centre, lids for pans are kept and there's a window.

The bottom consists of wooden panels, with space in between them. The the whole house is build on stilts, so all the natural 'garbage' is 'dumped' between the wooden panels and used as chicken food.


This is a very rare old style stove. Coals are placed between the three protruding parts, a pan on top of it and off you go, cook away.

The pot in front, with the matches on top, is used to put the hot coals in, after you complete the cooking, so they can cool off in there. The big spoon like tool is used for that.

My wife has never before seen one like this on Samui. It's very rare and also very old! Amazingly, it still can be used.


Above the old stove, are these baskets that can hold coconuts. The baskets are above the stove, so the smoke of the cooking fire, makes the coconuts stronger. A common sight in old style Samui kitchens.

As you may (or not), but Samui used to be the coconut supplier for pretty much all of Thailand, until a good 20 years ago, when tourism started to take over.


Here's Mook's Mum demonstrating how she (used to) cook(s) on one of the coal stoves.

My wife still uses one of these as well. Typically when she cooks fish, outside of the house, so the whole house doesn't smell like fish.

The old style stove with a pan on it, almost 40 or so years back in time.


Next to the window are a couple of buckets of water. These old Samui houses don't have running water installed and water is hauled into the kitchen, to cook and clean. The water buckets are covered by lids to prevent mosquito's laying their eggs in the water.

The small cup is used to drink water from the bucket.


A trip down memory lane. As in good Thai style, there's pictures from loved ones on the wall, since Mum's getting close to a respective age, the pictures are a peek into the past and each has it's own story. On the left is a collection of Mum's friends when she was at school.


A very rare portrait of the King, that had to deal with the time changes.


The good old ironing machine, demonstrated by Mook's Mum. On the bottom hot colas were inserted and off you went.

It was really nice to see how proud Mook's Mum was and she was very eager to show me all the things in her kitchen.

I do hope you enjoyed these pictures and the story, which will be continued with more pix fairly soon.

First we're is off to Donsak for two days, the small city where the ferry arrives on the mainland, for the wedding of my wife's best friend.

On Monday we'll proceed to Phuket for a short break and we'll be back on Samui by Friday evening. Next week's reports will be coming from the mainland, but as long as I have internet access, I'll be able to post and show you our pix.

I'd love to hear from you out there, so please feel free to post comments on my posts, by clicking on the comments button.

Cheers,

Camille

Thursday, August 23, 2007

24th August, 2007

Today's weather;

It looks like a firm overcast layer which may disperse later today, since the sun is trying hard to break through. Current temp is 26.5C

Yesterday was a lovely day, plenty of sunshine and warm with a max temp of 34.3C

Camille